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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="line-height: 18.4px;"><b>Myth: If you're truly in love, passion will never fade.</b></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="line-height: 18.4px;">someone, "the passion and loving" never go away. And if they do disappear, then "it must not be the right relationship" or "our relationship must be in trouble."</span> However, passion naturally diminishes in all <a href="https://www.sablackdiamonds.co.za/" target="_blank">relationships</a>.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Daily routines are one of the culprits. As responsibilities grow and roles expand, couples have less and less time and energy for each other.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">But this doesn't mean that the passion is gone for good. With a little planning and playfulness, you can boost passion. It is important for couples to introduce new things to perk up the relationship. Emotional intimacy along with a continuing sense of adventure and exploration puts a new aspect on things. Try and avoid passion-squashing routines.</span></div>
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh9ezPPfMNBqGVnL8Av_EcjGMF62ohVdNIdG889cijFHShNd21_Ma-x922SiW7_QZqCBS8IlKNV4fDdAbS3pZGX8xkBtNRKnUAIlrDTVSUZFqmPj1N_RKSve40-vGk8zBvgp2K_Q0efihE/s1600/3.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="350" data-original-width="475" height="235" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh9ezPPfMNBqGVnL8Av_EcjGMF62ohVdNIdG889cijFHShNd21_Ma-x922SiW7_QZqCBS8IlKNV4fDdAbS3pZGX8xkBtNRKnUAIlrDTVSUZFqmPj1N_RKSve40-vGk8zBvgp2K_Q0efihE/s320/3.jpg" width="320" /></a>There are many myths about relationships, and the problem with persistent myths is that they can erode a relationship's happiness.</div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">When you think a relationship <i>should</i> be a certain way, and yours isn't, frustration sets in. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">Here are a couple of myths about relationships that might surprise you. I will deal with more in the next couple of blogs.</span></div>
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<b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Myth: A good relationship means that you don't have to work at it.</span></b><span style="font-size: 12pt;"></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Fact: </span></b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">"The strongest most enduring relationships take lots of hard work," Our culture, education system and parenting styles don't necessarily prepare us for the fact that even good <a href="https://www.sablackdiamonds.co.za/" target="_blank">relationships</a> take effort.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">A healthy relationship is like a good garden. It's a beautiful thing but you wouldn't expect it to thrive without a whole lot of labour and TLC.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">But how do you know if you're working too hard on a relationship? One sign, is if you're feeling unhappy more than you're happy. In other words, are you spending more time tending to the relationship and keeping it afloat than enjoying it? Perhaps this unhappiness becomes less of a rough patch, and more like the "normal state of affairs".</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">Another bad sign is if you're trying hard to make improvements and changes, but you don't see the same level of effort on your partner's part.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">If both of you are trying and you can see positive changes being made at least some of the time, then that's a good sign.</span></div>
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<b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Myth: If partners really love each other, they know each other's needs and feelings.</span></b><span style="font-size: 12pt;"></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Fact:</span></b><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> "It's a setup to expect your partner to be able to read your mind,"</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">We're always responsible for communicating our feelings and needs.</span> Once you've communicated your needs and feelings, a good indication of the quality of your relationship is whether your partner actually listens to your words.<br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Approaching anxiety is the only thing keeping most men from love, unwavering confidence, and true happiness. Unless you start overcoming your approach anxiety, you could be lonely for a long time to come.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Of course you can learn a few great conversation starters, but then what? What will you do next..., and what if she rejects you in front of everyone? How will your friends react? Will this ruin your night?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Your anxiety could not only keep you from meeting a girlfriend, but it could a negative impact on the rest of your life. Fear of rejection from women could spill over into fear of rejection from anyone.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Do you feel as though everyone is watching you, and that they would laugh at you if I messed it up? </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">What you should realize is that people don't care about what is going on with you or the next guy. People don't really care about what you are doing, because the majority of the time people are caught up thinking about themselves!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Overcoming approach anxiety is more than just learning how to approach women. You also need to learn how to:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">1) Have unwavering confidence in yourself</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">2) Have the skill to engage a female in an ongoing and interesting conversation</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">3) Create attraction with a woman right away</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">4) Easily take things to the next stage with a woman</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Without those things, you will never experience true success with women. Most of your approach attempts will not make a good first impression, which will only make it harder to overcome your approach anxiety.</span><br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2yUsQhMIbFePldnfIDA7uWSP5kmDFho1-0KtbnATYnLVsXaPODEiQrv7_C0s7nh94YR7fekiUvrHMn2xSzEQDftn-5Qu41VUfanG4DLAyulVyCJRamnCK3Am7eRSlRDp3ONM0PLlJzzY/s1600/15.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="168" data-original-width="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2yUsQhMIbFePldnfIDA7uWSP5kmDFho1-0KtbnATYnLVsXaPODEiQrv7_C0s7nh94YR7fekiUvrHMn2xSzEQDftn-5Qu41VUfanG4DLAyulVyCJRamnCK3Am7eRSlRDp3ONM0PLlJzzY/s1600/15.jpg" /></a>It is very difficult to sit with a group of your friends and hear their stories and experiences that are taking place in their relationships - especially if you’re on your own. It will make you look at your life and wonder just <strong>how it is that you’re still single</strong> while all of your friends your age are married or at least in serious relationships. You start to feel down, depressed, frustrated and wonder if you’ll ever have what they do.<br />
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Have you ever thought that this could be something that you’ve brought on yourself? There are actually<strong> fears that can keep you single and you may not even know that you have them</strong>.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTxh9v5-Sz4J41f8hq_MYERDWhvgBwjdRanTRqBEv29psfgmbsHiA6L-XKLexTebQLcu0QVUscUEMmn7c7OBAnXn0V44yWlgQfKtxkPe9Lr6RXFWjUZ8zWLdBRujkXuzB1lNYEXqGoCzw/s1600/8.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="224" data-original-width="400" height="179" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTxh9v5-Sz4J41f8hq_MYERDWhvgBwjdRanTRqBEv29psfgmbsHiA6L-XKLexTebQLcu0QVUscUEMmn7c7OBAnXn0V44yWlgQfKtxkPe9Lr6RXFWjUZ8zWLdBRujkXuzB1lNYEXqGoCzw/s320/8.jpg" width="320" /></a>You may be afraid that you will be single forever. This is something that many single people fear whether they admit it or not. It usually happens when you’ve had a few, or more than a few, unpleasant or seriously awful relationships, especially in a row. Somewhere in the back of your mind you’re thinking that you may NEVER have that just right relationship. This can really worry you if it’s later in your life than you thought you’d be single. <strong>Men can tell when a woman is desperate and scared to be on her own.</strong> Sensing this can change the way a man feels toward you. So, you see, holding onto this fear that you’ll never meet the Mr. Right may very well push him away when he DOES show up.<br />
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Another fear that can keep you single is <strong>the fear of losing your man</strong>. Most people are on their best behavior when they first meet. However, there are some guys that act creepy right out of the gate by assuming too much about where your relationship is going. They may even start getting possessive and/or controlling. Women that exhibit this same type of behavior with men after only a few dates will scare those men away. So when you start worrying about losing the guy before you ever really connect with him, it can make you act in ways that, while totally uncharacteristic of you, can cause the end of this relationship before it even starts.<br />
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One of the top fears that might keep you single forever is that <strong>he will turn out to be just like your ex</strong>. This is pretty easy to understand. If your last relationship ended badly, you need to take enough time to get emotionally under control again. When you give it enough time, then your next man will get a fair chance without you comparing him to your ex. Breaking the emotional ties to your past, and the fear associated with it, helps you move away from the past without taking any old problems or patterns into the new relationship you’re trying to get off the ground.<br />
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Be very honest about whether or not you have these fears. Only by admitting to them can you start getting rid of them. </div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6581772235285054721.post-899825158527016072019-06-17T12:08:00.002+02:002019-06-17T12:08:43.881+02:00The Importance of Remaining Independent in a Relationship<div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; line-height: normal;">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiL7Tnfpc6s70OVqgUeMSfycWBPIUQN9ncguYwA31xwaNS4PtJnVEkx8rgx1t4i6Rkx4TW7dOSR6MOT29DiDoDjnBVw4NrtPXhjHga2648bPhPTJkB6VW0zR9trGZlDl01CGaDhxXrwVWc/s1600/9.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="333" data-original-width="500" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiL7Tnfpc6s70OVqgUeMSfycWBPIUQN9ncguYwA31xwaNS4PtJnVEkx8rgx1t4i6Rkx4TW7dOSR6MOT29DiDoDjnBVw4NrtPXhjHga2648bPhPTJkB6VW0zR9trGZlDl01CGaDhxXrwVWc/s320/9.jpeg" width="320" /></a><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Living in a close relationship with your special someone is invigorating, exciting and fun.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">In reality, a healthy relationship is made up of two mentally strong people. They each lead independent lives and have the desire and ability to share their lives as well.</span><br />
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<u><span style="font-size: 12pt;">These are a few of the reasons why this balance of separateness and togetherness is important:</span></u><span style="font-size: 12pt;"></span><br />
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<b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">1. Independence makes the relationship more intellectually stimulating.</span></b><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> If each party brings his or her individual interests to the table, they'll have some fascinating and different subjects to talk about with one another.</span><br />
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<b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">2. You can depend on your partner for support when you need it.</span></b><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> If each partner is independent, each one is comfortable depending on the other when the going gets tough or when life gets hectic. A relationship is, in essence, a partnership. Knowing you can count on the other person is wonderfully supportive.</span></div>
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<b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">3. Two independent people in a relationship can mean a more balanced relationship.</span></b><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> When you're both independent, the relationship is healthier. Nobody is exclusively relegated to a specific role.</span></div>
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<b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">5. A sense of independence makes you more emotionally secure.</span></b><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> This works for and benefits both partners.</span></div>
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<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo4; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Each person's sense of independence can help facilitate more openness and honesty in the partnership. No matter what you say or do, you know that your mate will ultimately be okay since their independence already shows that they're able to take care of themselves.</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo4; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">When you come together at the end of the day, maybe one is tired or bored. The other can step in and revive the other or bring some ideas to the table.</span></li>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">Partners in a relationship will enjoy a much deeper, longer lasting connection when they each have a sense of independence. Bringing up different interests for discussion, feeling like you can depend on the other and having a balanced relationship all stem from both parties having their own sense of autonomy.</span></div>
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEig6E4tZanUgtEE9v8ZIW9aUeu44TCmtSIzISrAossbhgiEEcIcKz9QUiz0_0G0r6trHdJQ04OXKO9fW2vq3qjHoVr8oB8VzdIRjrXNnZbo2wPfGlMOqszoQCtZ8QTtN56W9RAmT6Nfn2k/s1600/19.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="334" data-original-width="500" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEig6E4tZanUgtEE9v8ZIW9aUeu44TCmtSIzISrAossbhgiEEcIcKz9QUiz0_0G0r6trHdJQ04OXKO9fW2vq3qjHoVr8oB8VzdIRjrXNnZbo2wPfGlMOqszoQCtZ8QTtN56W9RAmT6Nfn2k/s320/19.jpeg" width="320" /></a><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This is the million dollar question by all people who are into online dating. Well, just think about it: if a mere wink and a simple touch can already send good signals to the other person when you are personally dating, how should it be done when you are only dating virtually? This is the very reason why it is a big must for you to know some of the best and most effective flirting tips for online dating. You should remember these flirting tips so that when you meet someone new online, you will be able to put only your best foot forward.</span><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Check Your Grammar</span></b><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Whether you believe it or not, one of the foremost flirting tips for online dating is to always check your grammar. It has been observed that a lot of people are actually turned off when the person they are talking to online are using incorrect spellings and has bad grammar. Of course, you do not want to disgust your prospect online date with erroneously spelled words and grammar that</span><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Make Humour Your Ally</span></b><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Probably one of the most effective flirting tips is to have a sense of humor. Remember that in online dating, you are trying to lure the other person to continuously communicate with you and if luck allows, even go out with you on a real date. So, it never hurts to throw out some jokes from time to time but make sure you will not go overboard if you do not want to make your online date think that you are trying so hard.</span><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Keep Things Plain and Sweet</span></b><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">One of the highly suggested flirting tips for online dating is to always keep things plain and simple. As much as possible, send out emails that are lighthearted, with just the perfect dose of upbeat tone that will surely make your prospect date more curious about you. It does not even have to be a very lengthy mail, since there are people who easily get bored with long paragraphs.</span><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Give Out Some Compliments</span></b><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">One of the best and easiest flirting tips that you can do is to send some sincere compliments. All of us surely want to hear good things about ourselves, so, it will be a good move if your emails and chat messages will contain some positive notes, but never ever do it. Here are other flirting tips for online dating that you can actually do to gain success: Cute is actually good. If your interaction online will make you look cute to another person, you will surely get a date in no time. Minimize the use of emoticons. Some people get irritated or they might also misread what you mean by using those smileys and other stuff whenever you chat with them so be careful. Never ever give out one-word answers such as "hehe" and "lol". There is nothing more annoying when you have typed in a whole paragraph and all that you got for an answer is a "LMAO."</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">These are just few of the flirting tips that you can apply whenever you look for a prospect date online.</span><br />
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perceived threat, frustration, assault or obstruction to our humanity
and who we are.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Anger can basically fall into 2 categories:</span><br />
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- 1. Our native response to not being taken care of properly or our
needs being met (which is classed as good or helpful anger) and<br />
- 2. A response of our Ego and which can be anything from frustration to rage in not getting what we want.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">And there is a world of a difference between the two. So, when
assessing you anger, it is very important to ask yourself honestly,
where is this anger coming from?</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">If you can identify that it is coming from your needs not being met,
then the anger serves a healthy function and gives you the emotional
lift and strength to rise up and be assertive in the situation in order to get your needs met.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">However mostly when anger is considered a problem, it is because it
is coming from a place of Ego, where you really just want what you want
and don’t like other people or things getting in your way.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">For men in general, often they haven’t been encouraged to be aware of
their whole set of emotions, and find that anger is their most common
and immediate emotion and response to any kind of physical or emotional
pain and fear.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Often anger will show up most in a man’s relationship with his partner, and this can develop into violence toward her.<br />
Understandably, over time a partner can become sick of living with fear,
intimidation and humiliation, and usually in time, finds the strength
to give him an ultimatum “You get fixed or I’ll get out”.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">There needs to be a distinction between anger and violence. Anger is
an emotion. Violence is what some people might do when they are angry,
or even when they are not. Violence can be physical, emotional or
spiritual.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">For many men their softer emotions of fear and sadness have been
covered or not expressed. They have been taught “Be a man. Be strong.
Take control of your life – even if you fail. But don’t show your true
feelings – especially your pain and fear”. They only have access to
their anger. Anger can cover so much of a man’s personal pain.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Anger is not about control. It is most often about loss of control.
For most men losing control is painful and fearful. You can feel
vulnerable and feel like you’ve failed. Sometimes men fear the
consequences of losing control more than just about anything else.<br />
The pain of failure and the fear of losing control drives much of men’s anger.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">The good news is that you can solve your anger problem. Not by
berating yourself as sick or sinful, but by recognizing yourself as a
human being with an emotional life experience as well as a rational one.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">The challenge is not really to work against your anger, but to become
aware of where it comes from. To take control of your anger and direct
what you do with it.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> 1. Security</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Show your woman that she is safe with you.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Show her that she can share her inner self with you and you have the strength to hold her up.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">2. Open Book</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Share things with her about your daily routine not because she may be insecure and not trust you.</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">This act creates trust and gives her the security of feeling that you have nothing to hide.</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">This makes her feel as if you want to share your life with her.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">3. One on One Time</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Find quality time that is dedicated just for her…</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">4. Cuddling</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Periodically, decline sex. No matter how bad you want it; refrain and opt for cuddling instead.</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Hold her and allow her to feel safe with you with no strings attached.</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Although sex is very vital to a relationship, allow her to have that moment of being held in the comfort of your arms.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">5. Thinking of You</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Pay attention to the things that make her smile.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Send her unsolicited flowers, handwritten cards, gifts…</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Schedule a romantic dinner at her favorite restaurant…</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">6. Public Acknowledgment</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Shout outs on social media or other public acknowledgement shows her she is number one in your life and you want the world to know it.</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Hold her hand or show affection at group events with your closest friends and family.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">7. Great Sex</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">You can never go wrong with spontaneous hardcore sex.</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Switch things up and keep it interesting.</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Show her you are only interested in her satisfaction.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">8. Get Rid of the Drama</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Check your ex girlfriends, stalkers and/or baby mommas.</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">If that doesn’t work, offer to allow her to do so.</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">This act shows her you are truly over your past relationship(s) and you are ready to move on.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">9. Consistency </span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Be consistent with your actions. Do not start something and then abruptly change your routine.</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Do not suddenly lose interest in the small things you did to win her heart.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">10. Respectful Listener </span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Attentively listen to her and respect her opinions.</span></span><br />
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We all lose someone we love at some point. People come in and come
out of our lives from time to time. In some cases, you can say that a
break up results in the same feelings as the death
of someone you love. The process of grieving the loss of a relationship
can be quite similar. Many people don't know how to cope with a break
up especially if it is their first relationship. While letting yourself
grieve is important, there are some tips that you should know about how
to go on after a breakup. If you are wondering how to pull the pieces of
your life back together then following are some mistakes you should be
sure to avoid:<br />
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run away and sabotage any chances of you becoming friends after the
relationship. Also, it may take longer for you to heal if you maintain
contact, since you'll also be exposing yourself to the drama of
constantly hearing news about your ex (or their new partner).<br />
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2 - Spending more than your means. Lots of people think that buying new stuff will help with the depression.
This actually doesn't do anything to help with the grieving process. It
only distracts you from what you are truly feeling and drains your bank
account.<br />
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3 - Eating too much. Although it may make you feel better for a while,
food is never the answer to depression. And an expanding waistline will
only make you feel worse.<br />
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4 - Starting to drink, smoke or take up any vices. These vices only
provide temporary relief for yourself. However, these habits could only
do worse as they lead to health complications or addictions overtime.<br />
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5 - Befriending people who are not supportive. When we lose our
self-esteem, we tend to hang around with people who only damage our
confidence further. This is the worst way to handle the situation. What
you need right now are positive people who can bring back your self confidence.<br />
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6 - Seeing someone else. This is the biggest mistake people usually
make. You've only broke up last week and you already think you are ready
to start something new? You're moving too fast when what you need right
now is some time off.<br />
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Surviving a break up can be very traumatic. In fact, lots of people
don't know how to go on after a break up and find themselves struggling.
It may be one of the hardest things you've done in your life. If this
is the case, take comfort in the fact that you are not alone. Many have
gone through the experience and lived to tell the tale. You might even
learn a few things as you allow yourself the time to grieve. Start being
happy with yourself again. You know that you can always trust yourself.
Don't be too tough on yourself during this time. Give yourself time and
you will find healing.</span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6581772235285054721.post-48394563313628827242016-08-01T18:26:00.001+02:002016-08-01T18:26:31.073+02:00What Deep Rooted Fears Are Keeping You Single? <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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is very difficult to sit with a group of your friends and hear their
stories and experiences that are taking place in their relationships -
especially if you’re on your own. It will make you look at your life and
wonder just <b>how it is that you’re still single</b> while
all of your friends your age are married or at least in serious
relationships. You start to feel down, depressed, frustrated and wonder
if you’ll ever have what they do.</div>
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Have you ever thought that this could be something that you’ve brought on yourself? There are actually<b> fears that can keep you single and you may not even know that you have them</b>. </div>
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may be afraid that you will be single forever. This is something that
many single people fear whether they admit it or not. It usually happens
when you’ve had a few, or more than a few, unpleasant or seriously
awful relationships, especially in a row. Somewhere in the back of your
mind you’re thinking that you may NEVER have that just right
relationship. This can really worry you if it’s later in your life than
you thought you’d be single. <b>Men can tell when a woman is desperate and scared to be on her own.</b>
Sensing this can change the way a man feels toward you. So, you see,
holding onto this fear that you’ll never meet the Mr. Right may very
well push him away when he DOES show up. </div>
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Another fear that can keep you single is <b>the fear of losing your man</b>.
Most people are on their best behavior when they first meet. However,
there are some guys that act creepy right out of the gate by assuming
too much about where your relationship is going. They may even start
getting possessive and/or controlling. Women that exhibit this same type
of behavior with men after only a few dates will scare those men away.
So when you start worrying about losing the guy before you ever really
connect with him, it can make you act in ways that, while totally
uncharacteristic of you, can cause the end of this relationship before
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One of the top fears that might keep you single forever is that <b>he will turn out to be just like your ex</b>.
This is pretty easy to understand. If your last relationship ended
badly, you need to take enough time to get emotionally under control
again. When you give it enough time, then your next man will get a fair
chance without you comparing him to your ex. Breaking the emotional ties
to your past, and the fear associated with it, helps you move away from
the past without taking any old problems or patterns into the new
relationship you’re trying to get off the ground.</div>
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Be very honest about whether or not you have these fears. Only by admitting to them can you start getting rid of them. </div>
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the sexual dynamics between men and women. Lies are actually a common
aspect of these dynamics with many reasons why this is so. Why do men
lie? You'll hear women ask this a lot. The answer is not as big of a
surprise as you might think. </span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Men and women lie for a number of reasons, but the top five reasons men lie, in no particular order, are:</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">1. To avoid conflict<br />
2. To spare someone's feelings<br />
3. To keep from getting into trouble<br />
4. To enhance your own status<br />
5. To flatter someone</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Of these so called "little white lies" the one that is the most
prominent and socially acceptable is the lie we tell to spare someone
else's feelings. Often it's difficult to decide if it's worth it to tell
the truth when asked your opinion. For instance, if someone asks you
"Do I look okay?" you are likely not going to open your mouth and say,
"No, you look terrible." A small little lie to spare that person's feelings is considered
morally acceptable. Men lie like this to women because they do not want
to hurt a woman's feelings. So while you can complain about men lying,
there's a legitimate and positive reason a man can lie.</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Also an acceptable secret of why men and women lie is to enhance
their own status. Status is something men want in women. Jobs are a
perfect example of this. It is more than socially acceptable to kiss up
to the boss by claiming to play golf on a regular basis, or pretending
to enjoy the same drink and cigar when at a social function. Social lies
like this are considered completely acceptable when you're attempting
to increase your workplace status.</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Most of the time, people don't even realize they're lying. If you're asking yourself <a href="https://www.blogger.com/null" rel="nofollow">why do men and women lie</a>,
you'll find that many people don't consider these small and socially
acceptable tales lies. However, there are a number of lies that are not
socially acceptable and the reasons will vary.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Some people lie because they enjoy the thrill of it. Others lie
because they want to hide something from their lover or boss. Having an
affair, for example, is a lie that that is not considered socially
acceptable and is very unhealthy for all parties involved. Men lie to
make themselves look better in the judgment of women.</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">The reasons why men lie to women are numerous and some, more than
others, are definitely overlooked. I hope it answers your question of
"why do men lie". Most times it is considered unhealthy to lie because
of the destruction in can wreck on relationships. If this is a possible
outcome, lying should be avoided if possible.</span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6581772235285054721.post-65079956886083678772016-08-01T16:39:00.000+02:002016-08-01T16:39:07.557+02:00Top 5 Reasons Independence is Important in Your Relationship<div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; line-height: normal;">
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people. They each lead independent lives and have the desire and ability
share their lives as well.</span></div>
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<b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">1. Independence makes the relationship more intellectually stimulating.</span></b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">
If each party brings his or her individual interests to the table,
they'll have some fascinating and different subjects to talk about with
one another. </span></div>
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<b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">2. You can depend on your partner for support when you need it.</span></b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">
If each partner is independent, each one is comfortable depending on
the other when the going gets tough or when life gets hectic. A
relationship is, in essence, a partnership. Knowing you can count on the
other person is wonderfully supportive. </span></div>
<ul style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" type="disc">
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Having
confidence that your partner can "be okay" without you while
you're at work or otherwise engaged relieves you of having to worry
about how your partner will manage in challenging situations. </span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Relationships do have an ebb and flow that requires that one partner lean on the other occasionally.</span></li>
</ul>
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<b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">3. Two independent people in a relationship can mean a more balanced relationship.</span></b><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> When you're both independent, the relationship is healthier. Nobody is exclusively relegated to a specific role.</span></div>
<ul style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" type="disc">
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">When
balance isn't present, one partner might take the role of "the
strong one" in the relationship while the other partner is
consequently "the weak one." Equilibrium in the relationship means
no one partner is more or less powerful than the other.</span></li>
</ul>
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<b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">4. Your relationship becomes stronger. </span></b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">When
two independent people make a decision to have a relationship, their
time with each other is more special and sacred. Even though a sense of
independence is important for each partner, being willing to share with
the other what you love to do is a great way to spend quality time
together. </span></div>
<ul style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" type="disc">
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo3; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Bringing
independence to your relationship promises a deeper, more lasting
partnership, since it's built on acceptance of each other as a
whole human being.</span></li>
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<b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">5. A sense of independence makes you more emotionally secure.</span></b><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> This works for and benefits both partners.</span></div>
<ul style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" type="disc">
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo4; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">If a partner is emotionally secure, they're not afraid to show their strength and their softer side at the same time. </span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo4; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Each
person's sense of independence can help facilitate more openness
and honesty in the partnership. No matter what you say or do, you
know that your mate will ultimately be okay, since their
independence already shows that they're able to take care of
themselves.</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo4; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">When
you come together at the end of the day, maybe one is tired or
bored. The other can step in and revive the other or bring some
ideas to the table. </span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo4; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Neither partner will feel threatened by their mate's autonomy and sense of personal strength and emotional security.</span></li>
</ul>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">Partners
in a relationship will enjoy a much deeper, longer lasting connection
when they each have a sense of independence. Bringing up different
interests for discussion, feeling like you can depend on the other and
having a balanced relationship all stem from both parties having their
own sense of autonomy.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Sometimes in conversation, you’ll run out of things to say. This is
especially true if you’re kind of shy or you’re not a very good
conversationalist. At certain points, you just won’t know what to say
next. But you can overcome this situation quickly enough.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">
</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">There are a few effective techniques that you can employ in a
conversation when you run out of things to say, in order to handle the
situation effectively. Here they are. </span></span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">
</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">1. Think about your day. </span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">
</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">There has to be something that happened to you during the day that
you can talk about. If it’s early in the morning, then during the day
before, or the one before that. And you can talk about it, even if it’s
trivial.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">
</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">So when you run out of things to say, think about your day a bit and
see if you find something to share: a short story, something you heard
on the news, something you enjoyed doing, almost anything goes. </span></span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">
</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">2. Know and use your strong topics.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">
</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">As an exercise, take at some point a few minutes to think about some
stuff that constitutes good conversation topics in general and you can
talk about. It could be books, movies, travelling, career, music, sports, politics; there is a wide range of potentially good topics. </span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">
</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Pick the ones that fit you best and create your own short list of
conversation topics. Then when you’re chatting with someone and don’t
know what to say next, think about this shortlist, pick a topic from it
and continue the conversation on that topic.</span></span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">
</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">3. Let the other person speak.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">
</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">You don’t have to necessarily continue a conversation when it comes
to a stop. Very often, if you just wait a bit and say nothing, you’ll
notice that the other person will say something and thus move the
conversation forward. </span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">
</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">So sometimes when you run out of things to say, it’s a good idea to
not try to say something else yourself. Instead, let the other person
have the floor and continue the conversation. And usually they’ll do it. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">
</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">4. Dare to speak.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">
</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Many times if seems that you ran out of things to say, but you
haven’t. You have things to say, but you won’t allow yourself to say
them because you think they’re not good enough. So you keep searching
for something better to say.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">
</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">In my experience as a coach helping others improve their social
skills, this perception is typically wrong. What you have to say is
worth saying. So the best thing you can do is to speak your mind. Be
bold and say what you have to say. </span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">
</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Apply the advice I gave you and your conversations will visibly
improve. There is a long way that your discussions can go and plenty of
opportunities to learn how to take them there.</span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6581772235285054721.post-40681879623217166022016-07-01T11:48:00.001+02:002016-07-01T12:00:24.707+02:00Overcoming Your Break Up when Your Boyfriend is Dating Once More<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">It is never easy to overcome a break up. Interestingly, one of the
things that can help you out is to begin dating once more. Of course, it
is not easy to muster the courage to start going out for a date after
your break up. The intimacy you shared with your ex, and the duration of
your relationship, will make the break up even more difficult to
endure. In such a case, you will find it very odd to go out on a date
with someone new. Yet <b><a href="http://www.sablackdiamonds.co.za/" target="_blank">dating</a></b> is one of the things that can lift you out
of the gloom of a break up.
</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">It may be even more challenging in case your ex boyfriend is already
dating once more. However, you should understand that it is by dating
that you will get his attention even at such a stage. Your ex boyfriend
may be going out on a date while there are at least some residues of
love towards you. When he realizes that you are seeing another guy, the
stinging arrows of jealousy will hit him. Then he may begin to
reconsider his decision.
</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Dating after a break-up, and when your ex is already up and about, will
undoubtedly be difficult. However, there are some things that will help
you out.
</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Speed dating
</b></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Although speed dating is still a relatively new phenomenon, it is
becoming popular fairly fast. Basically, speed dating involves meeting
several single people who are looking for relationships, and spending
brief moments with each potential date. This offers a number of
advantages.
</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">You will largely be able to maintain your privacy, as speed dating is
relatively anonymous. Safety is also enhanced given the controlled
environment in which you will meet. In addition, you will be able to
meet several people who have similar interests.
</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Online dating</b></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">This is another very popular mode of dating nowadays. It gives you the
opportunity to meet numerous people with whom you share similar
interests. Some online dating sites even offer some kinds of
match-making services, where you will fill a questionnaire and then
receive an update of potential dates who match your requirements.
Online dating has been trusted over time, and some very great relationships started in this way.
</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Match-maker services
</b></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">During the earlier times, matchmakers were highly respected. Although
the practice became outdated for some time, its value has been
appreciated in the recent past and it is coming back in vogue once more.
There are match-making services that will get you in touch with
potential dates that you would have not met otherwise.
</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">This is an option that you should consider only when you are serious
about finding someone new to start a serious relationship with. Keep off
it in case you still expect to get back with your ex.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Below are five first date rules. These rules can probably be
modified and applied in your life generally for being very likable and
attractive on dates or anywhere else. These are easy tweaks that should
make dating easier, and more fun, no matter what the outcome.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">1. Ease up on the expectations by playing a different game. Ask yourself a question. Why are you on the market and dating
right now? Is it because you’re lonely. Is it because your clock is
ticking and you’re husband shopping? Is it because you feel like you
“should” be in a relationship?</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">The answer to that question should be, “I’m dating
because I really dig men and I’m having a blast.” Setting the
intention to date for fun, allows you to be in the present moment with a
guy and enjoy his company without worrying about what will or won’t
happen next. Dating
is always a numbers game. Most people date many, many people before
finding “the one”. So, you may as well set your compass for fun and
enjoy the process. Dating
for dating sake needs to be enjoyable. If you can’t dial in on dating
as a good time, you probably need to take a break for awhile.</span></span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">2. Talk less, listen more. A first date is not a job interview.
You shouldn’t be selling yourself or any of your great qualities on
your first date. I’m sure you think you aren’t doing that. However, it
can come off that way unconsciously very easily. So, make it a point
to ask a lot of questions, and do a lot more listening than you do
talking.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">3. Avoid interviewing
your date. While your job is to ask more questions and listen more,
avoid asking the kind of questions that might make a person feel like
they are being interviewed. We all know the hot button questions to
avoid on a first date, and yet I’m amazed how often first date
conversation drifts to marriage, kids, and ex’s anyway. Don’t do it. Keep the conversation, engaging. It’s not an inquisition.</span></span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">4. Be the kind of woman a man can picture taking home to mom.
Basically, be classy, not sexy on a first date. I know all of this
might sound super obvious, but when you’re nervous, it’s easy to let
some obvious things slip. Be appropriate. Use your best manners. Keep
your drinking to a minimum. Watch your language. Behave in a way that
leaves you free and clear of any cringe worthy moments you might regret.</span></span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">5. Be your own good time. Don’t outsource your feel good. Don’t
depend on your date or anyone else to show you a nice evening. You
decide how you want to feel, and bring that to the date rather than
waiting for someone else to deliver it. No one can actually make you
feel confident, appreciated, or excited. So, if you want those things,
bring them yourself. A woman who brings her own good time is very
pleasant to be around. An easy smile is the best cosmetic.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">We all want to think we know ourselves well enough. That we know who
we are, what kind of a relationship we want to have and how to behave
with our partner.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">In all likelihood you are no exception.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Yet there might be some things about yourself that you DON’T know.
Unfortunately, these “things” might cause you to sabotage your
relationships time and again – without you knowing that you do. </span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">You might disagree with this assertion. It might be painful to think
that you are NOT totally aware of the ways your attitudes, reactions and
behaviors drive you to sabotage your relationships (or inability to
enter one).</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Thinking it over with honesty might help you realize how much aware you are and how much control you have over them:</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">* Do you feel you can control, change and choose your attitudes,
reactions and behaviors, or do find yourself “controlled” by them? </span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">* Do you feel you make CONSCIOUS DECISIONS about how to behave with
your partners, or do you find yourself operating on the basis of
AUTOMATIC PATTERNS which repeat themselves throughout all your
relationships?</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">* Is it possible that you interact with your partners in ways that
HARM the relationship (that you either don’t see or don’t think you can
change)? </span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">* Is it possible that you are NOT AWARE at all that you harm your
relationships? That whenever conflicts arise between you and your
partners you blame them, not willing to take responsibility for your
part in the problems (or the eventual break-up of the relationship)?</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">WHY IS IT POSSIBLE THAT YOU ARE NOT AWARE?</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">It shouldn’t surprise you that you might NOT be aware of the above
(maybe even deny and reject it). Self-Awareness is not something you
have been taught at home or in school. </span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">But if you find yourself experiencing ongoing difficulties and
failures in your relationships (or in your ability to enter one), and
are willing to contemplate the possibility that there might be things
about yourself you DON’T know and that you might be SABOTAGING your
relationships - </span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">THEN:</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">The best you can do for yourself is to take the necessary steps to
BECOME AWARE: to get to know and understand yourself better; to realize
that there might be factors you were UNAWARE OF UNTIL NOW (such as:
your needs and fears, belief-system, unrealistic expectations and
fantasies) which controlled your attitudes, reactions and behaviors and
drove you to harm your relationships.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Becoming aware empowers you to make the necessary changes and cultivate a successful relationship.</span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6581772235285054721.post-57975417933656807902016-04-05T14:39:00.001+02:002016-04-05T14:43:30.719+02:00Factors Why Some People Find Love While Others Don't<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">People wonder why some couples make it and others don’t. To begin
with, why do some people find love and others don’t. Here are the many
factors that can contribute to a successful love life that are often
overlooked.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">
</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b>Stability</b><br />
Men can find stability in a woman attractive because they don't want someone who doesn't know how to control her emotional intelligence
or issues which may come up in life. Men aren't going to like drama and
do like to keep things easy going, so this is why they want a stable
partner.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b>Attraction is different for everyone</b><br />
Not only is the opposite sex confused about what the other finds
attractive, but each individual is different. Individuals can have
unique standards about what they find attractive in the opposite sex,
especially about personality traits.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">
</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b>Approval, make him feel accepted</b><br />
Men are captivated to others who make them feel accepted. Someone who
doesn't want too much from him or the way he acts. Someone who doesn't
try to change him, or anticipate too much in a relationship. He wants to
be relaxed around the woman he spends the rest of his life with.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">
</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b>Independent/ Make him feel desirable</b><br />
Whether it's; financially, emotionally, or relationally, men can find
independence attractive in a woman. Being too needy can be a turn-off.
But did we know that being independent can be a turn-on? An independent
woman will not only appeal to the men who want a low-maintenance
partner, but also puts out the vibe that she's strong and doesn't need
him, making him feel that she needs to be pursued.<br />
On the other hand, some women are the opposite. This can also be a
turn-on to some men. There are men around who want to take care of their
woman, and a more dependent woman can touch his masculine, heroic,
loving side.<br />
To be safe if you don't know him yet, display both sides and have a healthy balance of each, not overbearing on either.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">
</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b>Gets along with friends and family</b><br />
Many times a relationship doesn't just have to do with the couple involved, but with friends and family as well. This can mean that chemistry doesn't just have to do with the two of them, but how well she fits in with friends and family.
Where lovers may come and go friends and family are more lasting. So if
he has to make a choice between the two, he can sometime pick his
friends over her, as they're the more lasting of the two.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">
</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b>Fits into his life-style</b><br />
Chemistry doesn't always have to do with two individuals, but with his
lifestyle. Many factors can come into play, his financial situation,
their aspirations, traveling, flexibility, people he associates with,
and other factors. Chemistry and attraction doesn't always have to do
with two people, but at times has to do with how well they match each
other's lifestyle.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">
</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b>The right time in their lives</b><br />
Timing is everything in life. The right thing at the wrong time is the
wrong thing. Love happening is related to the right timing in life.
When; professions, feelings, wants, and biological clock's pair just
right. Where the both of them met and were looking for love in the right
time in their lives, that`s when love will strike.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">
</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b>Luck</b><br />
Whether it's that they met the right people, or have a lot of
connections, luck can now and then be the final factor. Is it luck, or
just getting out there and meeting the right people and making yourself
as available to meeting as many as possible?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">
</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b>The people you know</b><br />
Friends and family who have paired them up well could be the factor that
made love take place. They could just be fortunate enough that when her
friend met the right man for her, she was thinking of matching them
together. Most of the time life isn`t about your own abilities, but who
you know in life. Getting the word out to your close and trusted friends
can help in pairing you up, as they may know just the right man for
you.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">
</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b>Looking in the right place</b><br />
Meeting Mr. Right has to do with seeking in the right places. If the
qualities you're attracted to are class, and intellect, then your
chances of finding him are better off in a library than in a club. Hang
out in places, and join activities where he'll most likely be found.
Looking for him in the wrong place is just going to waste your time and
could even distract you with the wrong kind of guy.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">
</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b>Don't close doors</b><br />
Most people don't have the fairy tale love story of love at first sight.
Attraction frequently comes over a bit of time. Writing him off as
unattractive or putting him in the friend zone too early can be
untimely. Most couples are formed from friendships and people spending
time together before deciding whether they are attracted to each other
or not.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">
</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">These are the many factors that can participate to love, and
questioning why a couple has it won`t necessarily give you the answers
that will help you find love. Keep looking, stay upbeat, and keep your
hopes up, love will find you soon.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Pulling away is very common for a man, even in the best of relationships. What matters
here is not that the man is pulling away, it's how the woman HANDLES the situation when he does.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Because while you can't generally control why he pulls away, you CAN have full control over how you
respond to it.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Think about that for a minute. You have enormous power in your relationship with a man to steer things
in a positive direction... even if he's not "cooperating" with you in any given moment.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">So Let Me Ask You This...</span></h3>
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">How do you usually respond when a man pulls away? Do you get upset and react out of fear to the problem
he's creating?</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Or... are you conscious and aware enough to take a moment to make
a different choice... a choice that could reconnect you both right
away rather than push back when you feel him pulling away?...</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">A
large part of handling this situation with a man actually involves not
DOING very much at all. If you've ever heard of the expression
"action in inaction," you'll want to keep it in mind here. The
concept is that NOT taking action and giving up control of a situation
is
sometimes the most powerful action you can take.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Why? Because
you're allowing events to unfold naturally and you actually get to learn
information you can use to then take the necessary
action.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Let me show you what I mean in the context of this all-too-common relationship scenario where a man pulls back.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Non-Action 1: Take A Step Back Yourself</span></h3>
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">When
a man who has been showing a lot of interest in you suddenly pulls
back, your immediate reaction is probably to launch into "fix it"
mode. You might start to worry, ask him what he's thinking and
feeling, and generally try to "fix" the situation.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">While this
might seem like a sensible, proactive thing to do, it usually ends up
leaving you frustrated and can actually create more
distance between the two of you.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">That's because when one
person in any interaction becomes the "convincer," the other person will
usually resist. It's human nature, and
you probably know it all too well from your experience with men.
Instead, the best thing you can do is to take the focus off needing to
fix
the situation and simply allow the space for him to naturally come
forward.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Non-Action 2: Identify How He's Withdrawing</span></h3>
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Taking
a step back also let's you do something else: It gives you a chance to
observe him and if his withdrawing is more a pattern of his
own rather than a reaction to something specific in your
relationship.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">There are two ways a man can withdraw. I call them "annoying withdrawal" and "dysfunctional withdrawal."</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><strong>Annoying withdrawal</strong>
is when a man pulls back into himself and his own mind for a few
minutes or hours and takes space
for himself. Sure, he might shut down his feelings and
communication, but he doesn't do this for long. He is also able to come
out of it
and ultimately communicate and allow space for your feelings once
he's out of it.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">On the other hand, <strong>dysfunctional withdrawal</strong>
does not allow for your feelings. It usually lasts longer and is more
isolating
and intense. It repeats frequently in response even to seemingly
little stresses or things a man isn't capable of handling emotionally,
and it
does not ultimately allow for the exchange and communication that a
real relationship requires.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">The Right Kind Of Action That Brings Him Closer</span></h3>
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Once
you get the first two steps I shared above, there's a simple way to
permanently avoid the kind of withdrawal that makes you feel less
appreciated or understood by a man.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Here's something
interesting about how men work that you probably never thought of. A man
falls more DEEPLY in love with you because of the
way you handle the important moments in your relationship - in ways
other women can't and don't.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Creating a successful relationship takes a lot more than believing in Cupid, love, marriage
or romance. Instead of blundering blindly through the stages of
commitment, you can begin building the solid basis your relationship
needs by asking yourself some questions. Here are some to consider
before moving in together or making emotional and financial commitments:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">
</span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><strong>1. What is your definition of commitment? </strong><br />Whether
you know it or not, you and your partner are continuously defining your
relationship. If you don't know what your relationship means to each of
you, you risk repeating past mistakes, getting stuck in uncomfortable
roles, or fighting about what a healthy relationship is. Talk about what
you mean by words such as relationship, commitment, love, and
faithfulness. You'll be amazed by what you learn. </span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><strong>2. Have you discussed finances? </strong><br />Next to sex,
money is the biggest generator of problems, arguments, and resentment in
long-term relationships. Couples tend to assume that money should be
pooled, but it usually isn't that easy. A disparity in income can mean
struggling about who pays for what, or whose income determines your
lifestyle. Different financial habits
(one likes to save, the other spends more, or doesn't keep track) can
become a source of argument. For many couples, separating the money
makes things run smoother; you don't wind up struggling for control. You
can split expenses evenly, or work out a percentage share if your
incomes are different. Whatever you do, learn to talk about money in a
businesslike manner. </span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><strong>3. What about household responsibilities? </strong><br />If
you're not yet living together, take a tour of each other's homes.
Drastically different decorating styles, neatness, and organization
levels can become sources of argument, as can housekeeping and chores.
If you have different tastes, it may require a lot of creativity
and negotiation to decorate a joint home in a way that makes both of
you comfortable. Additionally, think hard before moving into your
partner's established home. You may have trouble feeling as if you
belong in a home that was previously established by your partner, unless
you participate together in reorganizing and redecorating it. </span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><strong>4. How close are you to family or friends? </strong>If
one of you has a lot of family or friends, and the other does not, or if
you both have big families, find out what those relationships mean.
Where will you spend holidays? If there are family members who have
problems, such as financial stress, addiction or mental illness, how much will that impact your relationship? </span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><strong>5. How do you handle anger and other emotions? </strong><br />We
all get upset from time to time. If you are usually good at diffusing
each other's anger and being supportive through times of grief
or pain, your emotional bond will deepen as time goes on. If your
tendency is to react to each other and make the situation more volatile
and destructive, you need to correct that problem before you live
together. </span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><strong>6. How do you show love to each other? </strong>Talking
about which actions and words mean love to you may be surprising. Even
if it's hard for you to figure out, discussing how you give and receive
love will improve your relationship. You will understand what makes each
of you feel loved, and how to express your love effectively. </span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><strong>7. How well did you discuss these very questions? </strong><br />Asking
yourselves these questions are excellent tests of your ability to
define and work out problems. Constructive discussion that leads to a
mutually satisfactory solution means you know how to solve problems in
your relationship. If not, get counseling before going further. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Gain More Self Confidence With Women</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: xx-small;"><b><span style="font-size: xx-small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="color: #6aa84f;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><b> </b></span></span></span></span></b></span></span></h2>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">If you’re the shy kind and an introvert, chances are, you’re looking
for ways to build self confidence around women. The most common problem
which guys have around women is that they believe they’re <a href="http://www.mass-ebooks.com/loves/rd/dance-floor.htm">simply not good enough </a>and that is the root cause of their rejection.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">This is because when you’re worried you’re not good enough, you end
up projecting a bad self image and which woman would go for a guy who
doesn’t think much of himself?</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">No, I’m not saying you start walking around with your chest sticking
out and your shoulders thrown back, women hate over confident men, but
you need to project the image that you’re comfortable in your own skin!
Here are 5 tips for you to gain self-confidence around women! Armed with
these, you simply can’t go wrong!</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><strong>5 Ground Rules!</strong></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">1. When you are around girls or the girl of your dreams, you need to
learn to relax. Easier said than done I know, but you can try to
concentrate on your posture and try relaxing your tense muscles.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">2. When you’re going up to her, have no expectations. Don’t expect
that she’s going to say yes to you and more importantly, don’t expect
that she is going to refuse you!</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">3. If you’re serious about gaining self-confidence and not just
around women, try meditating and practicing yoga for a while every day.
Nothing works better than this. This helps you stay in a positive frame
of mind and that reflects when you’re talking to women.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">4. Whenever you’re around women, instead of thinking about all your
bad qualities, think of all your positive attributes, your strengths so
to speak. This will make you seem more comfortable and at ease and it is
a well-known fact that women like easy-going guys!</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">5. Lastly, when you are about to approach her, don’t spend endless hours debating whether you should or your shouldn’t. <strong>JUST DO IT</strong>,
before all those negative thoughts come rushing in! The first step is
often the hardest to take, but after you do, it becomes easier with
every move, so go for it.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Gaining more self-confidence with women is not that hard, you just need to keep a cool head and most importantly, <strong>ENJOY</strong> her company, rather than mentally deprecate yourself all the time!</span></span><br />
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experience. And this doesn’t even need to be a relationship was
fulfilling or healthy; as it can be painful no matter how ‘good’ or
‘bad’ it was.</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> So this means that someone can have the desire to get back with
their ex and for the relationship to continue even though this might not
be the best option. Logically one might think that if the relationship
didn’t work before, then the best option would be to move on.</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> If the relationship did work before and there didn’t seem to be a
reason for it to end, then it is only natural that one would do all they
can to get back with their ex. What it comes down to is the fact that
an emotional attachment has been made and so, logic or reason can have
very little impact.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> <b>Good</b></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> When someone is in a relationship that is going well and then out of
nowhere it just ends and this could be an abrupt end, it is could make
one wonder what happened. They could end up feeling mystified and have
no idea why it has come to an end.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> And even if they are aware of what wasn’t working, their mind could
filter these reasons out. One then only chose to focus on what was right
and to ignore what was wrong. If they can think of more positives than
negatives, then this is going to cause one to feel even more convinced
that it shouldn’t have ended.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> <b>Bad</b></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> However, if one is in a relationship that is not going well and then
before long it comes to an end, it is unlikely to make one wonder what
happened. The evidence is going to be there and there is then no
confusion as to why is has come to an end.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> But just because the evidence is there, it doesn’t mean that one is
going to accept it. They might start to idealise the relationship and
begin to see what they want to see; instead of what was taking place.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> <b>Solutions</b></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> And just because the relationship was not working, it won’t
necessarily stop someone form trying to get back with their ex. If it
was working, then it is to be expected that one would do all they can to
restore the relationship.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> This is not something one has to do all by themselves either; as there is help available. One can be assisted through reading books, articles and they can have coaching. There are even spell casters out there that offer to reunite people.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> <b>A Mutual Choice</b></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> When two people are in a relationship, ideally it should be through
choice and not through fear or obligation. So if one was to work on
themselves in order to get back with their ex, then it is clear that
they are not violating another person. And yet, if one was to use
control, manipulation and even a ‘spell’, it shows that they are trying
to violate another person.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> And if this is what is happening, one would need to ask themselves
why they want to get back with their ex. If they truly loved or liked
the other person, they would want what’s best for them. If this means
that they want one to be a part of their life then so be it, but if not,
this is something that one will have to accept.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> <b>Emotional Attachment</b></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> When one has formed an emotional attachment to someone, it is not
going to be easy to let go. If this was a relationship that worked, then
one is not necessarily going to want to let go. The fact they are
attached to them, could be interpreted as a sign that they are meant to
be together.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> And the same interpretation could be formed even if the relationship
was not working; simply because they feel attached to the other person.
Letting go can be painful even when the relationship wasn’t work. As a
result of having this attachment, it is going to be painful to not have
this person around anymore.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> <b>Regulation</b></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> So for some people this attachment is going to reflect the truth and
that is that they are meant to be together. But for others, it is just
going to reflect what is going on for them and therefore have nothing to
do with the other person or the relationship.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Being with the other person is then a way for them to regulate their
emotions and for them to feel better. What the other person wants is
then not taken into account and one is being motivated by their own need
to feel better. The other person’s needs and wants are then completely
disregarded.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Emotions</b></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> And the emotions that one is trying to regulate through being with
the other person could relate to the present day relationship and they
can also relate to ones childhood years. The present relationship has
then triggered trapped emotions from their past and if one is not aware
of this, they can end up believing that the other person is causing
them.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> The other person is then believed to be in control of how they feel
and based on this, they are the only ones who can make them feel better.
What this would show is that one has become emotionally dependent on
the other person.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> <b>Awareness</b></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> So there is the chance that one is meant to be with their ex and
also the chance that they are not. And it will be important for one to
reflect on the fact that their ex is an individual who has their own
needs and wants.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> If one is suffering emotionally, they may need to seek the
assistance of a therapist or a healer. When one has an emotional build
up from their past, it is going to make it difficult for them to see and
to think clearly.</span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6581772235285054721.post-63747831864797294222015-12-29T21:11:00.000+02:002015-12-29T21:11:55.334+02:00Is He Really Your Man? 6 Signs He Doesn’t See You As His Woman<div id="google_ads_div_Articles_Dating_Top_Center_728x90_ad_wrapper">
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Let's face it, nothing feels quite like having someone special in your life - a significant other to call your own.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">But ask yourself this. Are you making the mistake of assuming you're in a committed relationship with a man you're dating?</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">The truth is, just because you're dating,
enjoying each other's company and sleeping together doesn't necessarily
mean he's on the same page when it comes to your involvement.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">If you're unsure about where you really stand with a guy, these 6
tell-tale signs can help you determine if he's as committed as you are.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">1. He Runs Hot and Cold</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Does he exhibit unreliable and flaky behavior? This is often a good indicator that he's "shopping around."</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">If he appears totally into you one minute, then can't remember your
name the next, his confusion is probably the result of him entertaining
other options. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">2. He Never Introduces You As His Girlfriend</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">If he's introducing you as "a good friend" instead of his
"girlfriend," to friends and acquaintances, take note! More than likely,
he doesn't view you as "his."</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">3. He Never Uses Romantic Terms of Endearment</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Another tactic a guy may use to keep the relationship from seeming
too serious is to use verbiage that conveys he sees his involvement with
you as casual.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">For example, if he always uses playful, yet neutral nick names such
as "Kiddo" and "pal" instead of referring to you as honey, sugar or
baby, chances are he doesn't think of you as "his woman."</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">4. He Only Wants to See You at His Convenience</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">If your involvement is lopsided and you're only spending time with
him on his schedule and on his terms, then more than likely, you're not a
priority for him.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">5. He Doesn't Invite You to Special Events or Social Engagements</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">When a man is truly committed to you, he wants you to be involved in
some of the activities he enjoys and functions that are important to
him.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Not that you have to do everything together, but if he never asks you
to come with, odds are pretty good that he doesn't view you as his
lady.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">6. He's Always "Missing In Action"</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">If you're constantly unable to reach him or consistently don't hear
from him over several hours and even days, it's a pretty safe bet he's
seeing other women.</span></span><br />
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</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Knowing where you really stand with a guy will not only prevent you
from wasting time with a man who isn't ready or interested in something
more meaningful; understanding that he may not see your relationship the
same way will keep you from feeling betrayed and becoming disappointed
and hurt.</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: xx-small;"><b><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span><span style="color: #6aa84f;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><b> </b></span></span></span></span></span></b></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Realizing that you and he are not a couple also frees you up to avail
yourself of other options and is a great way to let a guy know that
he's not the only "bull in the stall."</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">This will get his attention and may even cause him to step up and stop taking you for granted.</span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6581772235285054721.post-1733323018483442012015-12-13T18:44:00.003+02:002015-12-13T18:44:33.796+02:00Three Things You Should NOT Do When Dating<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Dating is no
longer, what it used to be. You also have to realize that your boyfriend
or girlfriend had his or her own friends’ priority to meeting you. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Dating is about learning
and exploring the possibilities that exist in a relationship and
figuring out if the relationship can move to the next level. You cannot
expect your partner to abandon his/her lifestyle to fit in with yours.<br /> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Here are three things you should not do when dating:</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">
</span><b><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Don't Expect Your Partner to Give Up “Me” Time</span></b><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">
</span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Everyone deserves to have some “me” time where he or she relaxes and
loosen up after working hard or taking care of business. Do not expect
your partner will be around you 24/7. Your partner deserves to have some
alone time where he or she can wind down without being disturbed. Every
relationship should have time out where each partner can relax without
choking the other partner up. </span><br />
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</span><b><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Do not monitor your partner</span></b><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Some people are fond of calling their partners up and when he or she
does not answer the phone, they press the redial button immediately.
Calling your partner too frequently is a sign of desperation (or
insecurity) when there is no emergency. Your partner may be at a meeting
at work or in-transit and cannot pick up your call. It may also be that
your partner wants to have some time alone. Learn to wait for an
explanation before charging and jumping to conclusions about his/her
whereabouts.<br />
Monitoring your partner’s movements or phone calls is a sign of
insecurity. Do not try to sneak and check your partner’s phone every
time it rings or ask who is calling. Do not try to be too clingy. It
also shows some signs of insecurity. Allow your partner talk to whomever
he/she wants to. </span><br />
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</span><b><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Do not try to change or control your partner</span></b><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Your insecurities may also push you to want to control your partner and expect him or her to take to your rules. Dating
is more like trying on clothes to see which ones will fit you. You
cannot try to change someone just to fit into your own ways. You either
accept them for who they are along with their flaws or move on to find
someone else. Trying to change or control someone is narcissistic and
should not be encouraged. You can learn to understand your partner and
work together to figure out how best to improve on your communication
and relationship while building into one another.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">If you find anything wrong, it is best to bring it to your partner’s
attention by having an amiable conversation than an intense argument. It
is okay to let your partner know about your fears (if any) and you both
work at it together. Relationships are not rocket-science. It takes two
people who know and understand each other while dating to make a relationship work. </span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Dating is all about trying to figure each other out, ensuring you
both share values and are compatible. You also trust, love and are
committed to each other. Your partner’s time should be valued as well as
yours and respect each other’s space. The more you give your partner
the space needed and build on each other, the deeper you give room for
your relationship to thrive.</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6581772235285054721.post-76331357061367308442015-07-08T11:14:00.001+02:002015-07-08T11:14:11.713+02:00Looking For Love - Know What You Want<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span><span style="color: #6aa84f;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><b><a href="http://www.sablackdiamonds.co.za/" target="_blank">CLICK HERE FOR BLACK DATING</a></b></span></span></span></span></span> </b></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b> During life, we all seek to know someone well enough to feel love
and be loved; we seek to connect and be a part of another person's life.</b> </span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">When we <a href="http://www.sablackdiamonds.co.za/" target="_blank">look for love</a>, sometimes we are looking for a lot more than
love itself. We are not just looking for someone to be with, but we are
also looking to fulfill everything we need in life. We want
understanding, someone by our side; we want companionship, sentiment,
and all the desired characteristics we find attractive and need in
another person. Love has a big list to fill, or so we think so. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Finding love can be a lot easier when we let go of all that we think we need because love can be enough all by itself.</b> </span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">It is when we get distracted by our other needs that we forget or even
overlook the love that is or can be there, for finding love isn’t about
finding the criteria we think we need in another person. Love is more
than our list of what we want. Love, true love, can be in a very
different from what we would ordinarily find attractive or essential to
our needs. Imagine if you were more open and aware of what your true
needs were and instead looked from this place? Imagine if you let go of
all you think you need in order to fall in love with someone? By
letting go of your agenda of what love is and needs to be, you can feel
love for the sake of love. If you let go of how it must be, you can
feel it from a more pure place.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">
</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>We may not even see the love that is available to us because of our biased idea of how it must be for us.</b> </span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">True love, the person that really fits us, does not always come in the
package we deem essential. If you let go of your idea of the perfect
match, the perfect love, and allowed yourself just to feel and be open,
who would you see? What person in your life have you overlooked simply
because they didn’t fit in with your idea of the perfect mate? What
relationship are you stuck in because you believe this is what love
should be, even if you don’t feel it? Love can come from the most
unexpected places. Do not keep yourself stuck in a loveless
relationship because you think it is ideal and fits with your
expectations. Do not ignore the possibilities based on your assumptions
of what this other person may or may not be. Open yourself up to
everything around you and lose your criteria for love. Love encompasses
more than you think, and it can overshadow all you have ever known so
far. Let yourself find love by escaping from what you think love is.
Open up to love with no ideas of how it has to be. When you do this,
finding love is a lot easier, for you give yourself a chance to find the
love you are meant to be with.</span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0