Flirting For Guys - How To Be Successful!

Let's first have a look at exactly how you ought to approach an interaction with a girl if you really want to be successful.  Flirting isn't about impressing girls. It has to do with revealing your interest in a woman and doing it in a fun, subtle manner. When it's done appropriately, flirting is a way for a guy and a girl to learn whether they're attracted to each other.

Flirting is not impressing her!
To begin with, your goal is not to impress her or to show off. This is the part about flirting that men mess up the most. Flirting is not about showing off! If you hear a guy talking to a girl about his expensive car, his executive job, or his massive bank account, he might believe he's flirting but he's in fact trying to impress her, and probably failing at that.
In truth, flirting isn't really about impressing girls. It has to do with revealing your interest in a woman and doing it in a fun, subtle manner.
 
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Exactly what is flirting then?
When it's done right, flirting is a means for a guy and a girl to find out whether they're attracted to each other.  Here's the thing. If you approach a girl and say, "Hello, you're cute, want to come home with me?" - that isn't flirting. It's being incredibly direct and forward. It bypasses all the build-up of the mating ritual and will generally turn a girl off.
However, if you walk up to a woman, smile at her, get her to laugh, make great eye contact, and possibly wink... all this things conveys interest to her.
While communicating interest is good, you don't want to stop there. You want your flirting to not just let her know that you're interested, but you also want to learn whether she's going to return your interest.
If she does return it, it's an excellent sign, keep going! If not, you need to choose quickly whether you should alter tactics or walk away.

Always remember exactly what your goal is.
Basically, as a man your goal is to convey two things in your flirting:
1) Your masculinity
2) Your self-confidence
Girls find both of these characteristics very attractive. Communicate them indirectly and non-verbally, and you'll have girls feeling warm and tingly when they think of you. Women are empathetic and emotional creatures - they react to feelings and strong emotions. So if you convey your confidence and your male sexuality when you flirt, girls WILL respond!

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