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Men who seduce women are not setting a trap, they are presenting an
opportunity. Either way, the man is the bait and the result is the same
in the end. You can by a book or study a website that teaches you how to
seduce women, but in the end, it is all up to you.
Do you want to know how to seduce women? Be yourself. Be attentive.
Be the kind of man that women want to be with. Who are those guys? They
are just like you, only better at seduction.
A man who successfully seduces women is sure of himself. He doesn’t
need female companionship, though he does desire it, the same way a
woman desires male companionship. A seductive man is assured, he has
everything he needs, but he realizes he needs a little something more.
He needs good company. He needs a woman the way a woman needs a man. He
doesn’t assert his need, but he lets a lady know he is available.
A seductive man is open to listening. He is open to touching. He is
open to letting his lady companion express herself. He pays attention.
He doesn’t direct the conversation, he follows the flow, adding his
insights and commiserating when appropriate. A seductive man has open
ears and open eyes. When the moment is ripe, a man with seduction on his
mind holds his lady friend’s hand. He touches her arm. He touches her
cheek. He watches the woman’s reaction. When she has had enough he
withdraws. When she feels the thrill is over, a seductive man doesn’t
press the issue. He waits for the next opportunity. Seduction is a
series of steps, one moment at a time.
A seductive man is himself. He has a life and he is successful at
what he does, even if it is being a night clerk at a convenience store.
Not every man can be a high-powered attorney, an influential politician,
or a popular celebrity. Attractive women know this. Chances are, the
woman you are trying to seduce is none of these things, either. Just be
good and content at what you do. Women respect a man who is sure of
himself and his abilities. An auto mechanic can be the best lover. He
knows how moving parts fit together.
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When a man seduces a woman, he appeals to her natural inclinations.
He studies her. He learns what she likes, what turns her on and what
turns her off, what makes her blush and what puts a spark in her eye.
The seductive man sets off sparks whenever he can. When a man seduces a
woman he follows her lead without taking control, though he steers
conversations and he makes himself available to the woman’s needs.
Nothing is more electric than touch. A seductive man is not overly
eager to kiss or to hug, but he does it when it is appropriate, and he
does it with a purpose. He does it to set off sparks. If the moment
isn’t right, a seductive man doesn’t overstay his welcome. Always keep
them wanting more. When in doubt, defer or cut it short. She'll tell you
if she wants more. There is always tomorrow. Seduction can be a long
enticing dance.
Have you been online dating for a long time and just can’t seem to
keep a man interested for more than a few weeks at a time? If this is
the case for you, do not worry; you are far from alone in having this
problem. One of the most difficult parts of meeting men online is that
men have access to hundreds of women every single time they sign on the
computer. Not only does this create way too many options for men, but
it also encourages bad behavior, and can even create somewhat of an
online dating addiction for men, as they consistently strive to find that next big thing.
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In order to find the type of quality guy online that we know is not going to fall into these habits,
one has to be on the look out for certain signs that make it much more
likely he is looking for a serious relationship. While there is no way
we can guarantee he is not one of those dreaded serial daters, looking
for certain signs may help us to severely decrease our chances of this
happening. So let’s take a look at a few clues that will help you to
week out the worst men, and choose the best.
1. The length of his online dating profile.
The length of a man’s profile will reveal a lot about who he is, and
what he is all about. If you stumble across a man’s profile that looks
as if it took ten minutes to fill out, odds are he is not that serious
about finding a meaningful connection. Those who are interested in
finding something meaningful will take the time to carefully express
everything they are looking for, in order to provided themselves with
the best possible chance of online dating
success. And besides, even if he is serious about finding a
relationship, but has a short profile, this is still an indicator that
he may be lazy and have little drive in other aspects of his life.
2. The types of pictures he has posted.
The written portion of the profile is not the only part of the
profile that tells the story of what the man is all about. As the old
saying often goes, a picture can easily be worth a thousand words, and
then some. If you are looking at a man who is partying it up in every
single picture, acting over the top silly in every single picture, or a
guy who is with random different women in every single pictures, then
there is a good chance that you are dealing with a man who is still on
the immature side, and is not even close to being ready for a serious
relationship. Avoid this at all costs.
3. The amount of times he logs on.
If you notice that a man is consistently logging on to the dating
site you are on, even after your first date, odds are that he is not
looking to settle down with you anytime soon. This is especially true
when It occurs weeks later. In order to know whether or not he is
logging on all the time, be sure to block your profile from views before
actually spying on him. Many sites will allow you to make it private
when you view somebody else’s profile. The last thing that we want to
do is have the man thinking we are stalkers when we are merely just
curious about whether or not he has the right intentions with us.
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How soon can I heal after a break up?
This is a major setback and it really does depend on several factors.
After a breakup, you really have two choices. One, leave the healing
to time. Two, take charge of the recovery process.
The first method will
take a long time, pain and suffering before healing. It is slow and
torturous. The second method, taking control, will allow anyone to
accelerate the healing process, learn fast and move on, leaving space to
find healthier and more fulfilling love than ever before.
You may need
some guidance on the steps for a fast and productive emotional healing.
We have never been taught how to heal emotionally, so when we go through
an emotional situation we are on our own. We need a method, a
successfully proven method for emotional healing.
You can heal but how you heal depends on:
1. You ability to understand the reality of the situation.
The more willing you are to face up to some facts such as a. I made a
mistake or made a wrong choice. This excludes blaming yourself.
2. I am responsible to clear this mess (this excludes fault-finding!)
3. The willingness to clear up the mess it would involve something from
me. Time, energy, resources and emotional reserves, even relationships
etc…
But this is an opportunity cost, meaning: I must be ready to either pay
this price or pass on a bigger mess to my children, to my future, and my
destiny.
4. Know yourself! When you are AWARE of your
own emotional reactions, your thoughts around the experience and the
interpretations that you made and the conclusions YOU make then you can
through the emotional upheavals still be able to catch yourself,
re-channel your thoughts and take action eventually based on reality and
never your hurt feelings.
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