25 February 2014

Online Dating - The Best Tips For Meeting The One For You

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Online dating has gained tons of popularity over the last few years. People are meeting other people online every day. Now, there are dozens of websites designed specifically for helping you find the right one. If you're interested in finding someone over the internet, you're going to need some tips for online dating to help you get started in the right direction.

Sign Up With Legitimate Sites - Don't sign up with websites that are not known well. For best results, it's recommended to find a couple of sites where there are lots of people. You definitely don't want to miss out on finding the right one.

Take The Tests - One thing you'll notice upon signing up to dating websites is that most offer a series of personality quizzes and tests to help match you with people you are compatible with. These tests are taken in the comfort of your own home while sitting at your computer. The end result is that you get paired with people who have similar interests to yours, which will provide you with a better online dating experience. You don't have to take the tests, but it's highly recommended if you want to enjoy good matches.

Put Up Pics - After you create your account, you'll be asked to upload a photo. You might not want to do this, but for best results, you should. Other people's first impression of you will be based on your photo. You'll also get a lot more messages and profile views, which is exciting to say the least. However, if you don't put up at least one pic of yourself, you might just find that no one is interested. After all, wouldn't you want to know who you were talking to?

Be Courteous, Respond! - When someone writes you a message, the worst thing you can do is not respond to them. Take a few moments to review their profile to see if you are truly interested. If you're not interested, the best way to let someone know that you're not into them is by not responding to them. However, if anything about them strikes your fancy, then let them know!

Check Your Mail Regularly - One of the best tips for online dating is to check your mail regularly. Checking your mail is the only way to know who has written you a message. It also helps to make sure that you do not sign up to so many sites that you become overwhelmed. Sign up to only a few, and remember to check your messages and respond accordingly.

Get To Know Them - After identifying a couple of people you are interested in, take the time to get to know them. Don't swap numbers just yet, but do take the time to chat online. It's important that you don't spend too much time chatting online, however, as most people quickly move on after a few conversations. If you plan to take this seriously, you should chat with them for a few weeks at most, swap numbers, and then meet in person.

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These tips for online dating are designed to make sure that you have the best possible online date
experience. Remember that in order to be successful you must take online dating seriously. If
you're truly interested in meeting someone, you won't have any problems doing so online.

18 February 2014

Dating Tips We Should Know About

Don't you wish there was a magic way that could solve all of our dating troubles? I'm sure you do!  Fortunately that is not the case. I say fortunately because accepting it just the way it is makes life so much more interesting. Could you imagine a relationship with no challenges? Pretty mundane, don't you think? Relationships are not something we're instructed on, but instead, it's a way of life and the only way to learn is through trial and error, and learning from our mistakes.  We can learn a lot through, not only our experiences, but the experiences of our peers as well. No matter the age, we can all take in a little something from each other.

1. Commitment: means to show loyalty, duty or pledge to something or someone. Before jumping into the dating world, ask yourself, "Am I ready to be loyal? Am I ready to change my lifestyle so that it accommodates more than one person? Am I ready to keep all the promises I made?" Think carefully about it.

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2. Know Yourself. Before you can ever set out to know someone new, make sure you know who you are yourself. It's important for us to learn who we are before we can introduce ourselves to someone we barely even know.

3. Know What You Want. When you know who you are you're able to know exactly what it is you want. Once you know what you want, let it come it you. No need to go looking for it.  Believe it will happen for you - if you have a positive and self confident attitude people will be drawn to you.

4. Appearance. The way you carry yourself is also very important. The attraction you put out is the attraction you bring in. Meaning, you attract the type of people you portray yourself to be. If you dress nicely and take good care of yourself, then you'll attract the type of people who do the same.  Trust me, they will come.

5. Have Fun! No need to be nervous about the whole dating world. Let go and have fun. Dating shouldn't be a duty, but rather, a time of fun. Enjoy the date despite of what it may be tomorrow. Make it a wonderful experience!

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If we all lightened up a little, we'd realize just how much simpler things could be. Not easy, but easier. Nothings easy, but with the right tools, you can reach your goal.

5 February 2014

Do You have a Pattern of Bad Relationships?

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Bad Relationship Patterns - where we constantly begin relationships that start out full of promise, only for them to end up in disappointment and sadness. If this sounds like you, if you suffer bad relationship patterns, then you will do well to learn to recognize what the problems are. This is the only to escape from that constant cycle of pain and sadness.

When choosing our partners, the whole process appears to go through stages. Firstly, we become aware of someone’s attractiveness, and their exciting personality (or vice versa). What comes next is the discovery that we possess certain interests, principles etc., that are common to us. Then we come to a state of mental arousal, where we begin to “click”, before finally, a more meaningful, psychological attachment develops.

If you experience bad relationship patterns, then surely you’ll recognize these feelings:
Conflict, Obsession, Feeling of Loss/Loneliness, Physical sensations/reactions, Repetitiveness/Boredom, Vulnerability.

  • Conflict: Never mind how you felt about your lover, deep down you always recognized something wasn’t quite ideal about the relationship. You felt feelings of jealously, uncertainness, nervousness or stress because of the relationship you were in.
  • Obsession: You believe that it is your own actions or words that drove your partner(s) away, though you remain convinced that you can fix things and turn the object of your passion into the adoring, loving person you desperately desire.
  • Feeling of loss: At the end of the relationship, you feel a sense of deep loneliness. Where you once felt a ‘connection’ with your lover, now there is only sadness, regardless of how painful or stressful that relationship turned out.
  • Physical sensations: Something your lover says or does, results in a familiar physical sensation that is deeply uncomfortable, for instance, a headache or a knot in your stomach.
  • Repetitiveness: Lots of your relationships started full of promise and hope, only to spectacularly fail later . Even though the people involved are not the same, the ending always turns out badly.
  • Vulnerability: You have a long-standing vulnerability; you are very conscious of your own ego and as a result are always looking to ‘prove yourself’ to your lover.
 If you experience one or more of the symptoms detailed above, and you find it difficult to forge long-lasting relationships, then you could have an issue with bad relationship patterns. So what can you do about this? Simple – you need to discover your own psychological needs are. By discovering yourself, you will identify the forces at work that shove you into the clutches of undesirable partners. Once this is understood, you will actually be able to avoid bad relationship patterns and into a more rewarding, loving relationship that you seek.

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