People wonder why some couples make it and others don’t. To begin with, why do some people find love and others don’t. Here are the many factors that can contribute to a successful love life that are often overlooked.
Men can find stability in a woman attractive because they don't want someone who doesn't know how to control her emotional intelligence
or issues which may come up in life. Men aren't going to like drama and
do like to keep things easy going, so this is why they want a stable
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Attraction is different for everyone
Not only is the opposite sex confused about what the other finds
attractive, but each individual is different. Individuals can have
unique standards about what they find attractive in the opposite sex,
especially about personality traits.
Approval, make him feel accepted
Men are captivated to others who make them feel accepted. Someone who
doesn't want too much from him or the way he acts. Someone who doesn't
try to change him, or anticipate too much in a relationship. He wants to
be relaxed around the woman he spends the rest of his life with.
Independent/ Make him feel desirable
Whether it's; financially, emotionally, or relationally, men can find
independence attractive in a woman. Being too needy can be a turn-off.
But did we know that being independent can be a turn-on? An independent
woman will not only appeal to the men who want a low-maintenance
partner, but also puts out the vibe that she's strong and doesn't need
him, making him feel that she needs to be pursued.
On the other hand, some women are the opposite. This can also be a
turn-on to some men. There are men around who want to take care of their
woman, and a more dependent woman can touch his masculine, heroic,
To be safe if you don't know him yet, display both sides and have a healthy balance of each, not overbearing on either.
Gets along with friends and family
Many times a relationship doesn't just have to do with the couple involved, but with friends and family as well. This can mean that chemistry doesn't just have to do with the two of them, but how well she fits in with friends and family.
Where lovers may come and go friends and family are more lasting. So if
he has to make a choice between the two, he can sometime pick his
friends over her, as they're the more lasting of the two.
Fits into his life-style
Chemistry doesn't always have to do with two individuals, but with his
lifestyle. Many factors can come into play, his financial situation,
their aspirations, traveling, flexibility, people he associates with,
and other factors. Chemistry and attraction doesn't always have to do
with two people, but at times has to do with how well they match each
The right time in their lives
Timing is everything in life. The right thing at the wrong time is the
wrong thing. Love happening is related to the right timing in life.
When; professions, feelings, wants, and biological clock's pair just
right. Where the both of them met and were looking for love in the right
time in their lives, that`s when love will strike.
Whether it's that they met the right people, or have a lot of
connections, luck can now and then be the final factor. Is it luck, or
just getting out there and meeting the right people and making yourself
as available to meeting as many as possible?
The people you know
Friends and family who have paired them up well could be the factor that
made love take place. They could just be fortunate enough that when her
friend met the right man for her, she was thinking of matching them
together. Most of the time life isn`t about your own abilities, but who
you know in life. Getting the word out to your close and trusted friends
can help in pairing you up, as they may know just the right man for
Looking in the right place
Meeting Mr. Right has to do with seeking in the right places. If the
qualities you're attracted to are class, and intellect, then your
chances of finding him are better off in a library than in a club. Hang
out in places, and join activities where he'll most likely be found.
Looking for him in the wrong place is just going to waste your time and
could even distract you with the wrong kind of guy.
Don't close doors
Most people don't have the fairy tale love story of love at first sight.
Attraction frequently comes over a bit of time. Writing him off as
unattractive or putting him in the friend zone too early can be
untimely. Most couples are formed from friendships and people spending
time together before deciding whether they are attracted to each other
These are the many factors that can participate to love, and
questioning why a couple has it won`t necessarily give you the answers
that will help you find love. Keep looking, stay upbeat, and keep your
hopes up, love will find you soon.
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